Two men were walking through a field one day when they spotted an angry old bull who wanted them out of his pasture. Instantly, they darted toward the nearest fence. The storming bull followed in hot pursuit and it was soon apparent that they wouldn’t make it.

Terrified, one man shouted to the other, “Put up a prayer right now, John! That bull is about to catch up to us!

But John answered right back, “I can’t. I’ve never made a public prayer in my entire life!”

“But you must!” yelled his companion. “The bull is catching up to us. Just use a prayer you have heard before!”

“All right,” panted John, “I’ll say the only prayer I know, the one my father used to repeat at the table at Thanksgiving: ‘O Lord in Heaven, for what we are about to receive, make us truly thankful. Amen!'”

Lol! Well, Happy Thanksgiving everyone! I hope you are all able to be surrounded by people you love on this special holiday. I titled this message Why God why, When God When because I know it’s likely something that we all have asked at some time or another. Why God…am I having to go through this trial…this situation? When God…will this ever end? Perhaps you are even going through the fire right now, and you are in need of a boost of faith. I sincerely pray that this message is an encouragement to you. So, why and when…Let’s get into it and start with some questions.

Is it possible to still be pleasing to God, while at the same time we don’t totally trust Him? Scripture has a very clear answer to this found in Hebrews 11:6,”Without faith it is impossible to please God, because anyone who comes to him must believe that he exists and that he rewards those who earnestly seek him”

Next question: How then can a person stay faithful (full of faith) and is it OK to question God?

It’s OK to sometimes question God; but never let that be an excuse to do so. What do I mean by that? We have often heard that it is OK to be honest with God and tell him what is on your heart. Which I totally agree with. God wants us to be transparent with him. But we also need to be aware that satan is always trying to get his foot in the door and turn us away from faith and trust; but rather into complaining and doubting, which is a very slippery slope.

Let’s be honest, it’s much easier to have faith and be thankful when we are experiencing blessing in our lives. It’s much more difficult to demonstrate our gratefulness to God and others when we are going through hard and difficult times. I also know that when we are in the thick of tough and trying times, our natural man does not want to hear verses such as this one from the book of James. But that does not negate the fact that we still need to hear it.

“Consider it a great joy, my brothers and sisters, whenever you experience various trials, because you know that the testing of your faith produces endurance. And let endurance have its full effect, so that you may be mature and complete, lacking nothing” James 1:2-4

It’s a hard thing for a Christ follower to admit that they truly don’t have faith, or when and if their faith is wavering. It tends to be a subtle shift that we may not even readily recognize. We even rationalize our own thoughts saying things such as, “It’s OK that I am frustrated and angry at God for allowing this to happen… after all God knows my heart.” Yet, while it is true that God does know our heart, that does not mean that He is ready to move us out of a situation when we are not truly demonstrating faith and trust in Him. As we continue in this pattern, we lose sight of trusting God with the why and all we can think of is the when. Frustration sets in and our peace is leaving us along with our faith.

We must remember that satan knows that victories in our lives will only be won when we are truly trusting in God with a heart of gratitude and thanksgiving—all of which are things that he is diabolically opposed to. I realize we are not perfect saints and may not show gratitude 100% of the time. However, if we merely excuse our attitude, we will soon begin to question God about the things we normally would have no other reason to. We will begin to be critical of other Christians, and leaders. We will look enviously at other people, other families, and those who seem to be more blessed. As I said, we are sliding down a slippery slope. Only pride will tell us differently.

Once again, it’s easy to demonstrate our faithfulness and gratitude to God when we are in good times. When we get a new car, a new house, when we find a mate, when we get a promotion at work. At these times we are full of thanks and gratitude toward God. But what does God see and hear in the midst of the tuff times of life? When we are going through it, are we still honoring God with a faithful heart?

God’s Word tells us:

Give thanks in all circumstances; for this is God’s will for you in Christ Jesus.” 1 Thes 5:18  

In every situation, by prayer and petition, with thanksgiving, present your requests to God. Phil 4:6

Enter His gates with thanksgiving and His courts with praise. Ps 100:4

Let’s look at the life of King David. One of the most prominent figures of the entire Bible. As we read in 2^nd Samuel, we see a man who from a very young age had amazing faith and courage in the Lord. He was anointed by God as King and yet had to flee into hiding in the desert from and angry and jealous King Saul, who had turned on him and sought to kill him. David (the anointed king) was forced to live in caves. He was on the run for many years, until the death of Saul, when David actually took the throne as Israels king. He was a king like no other. Was he perfect? Far from it. Adultery and murder were part of his history. He had drastic highs and terrible lows in life. Yet still today we read his humble and awe-inspiring love songs and letters to God in the book of Psalms.

God actually said that David was a man after His own heart. How? Why? Because David was marked as one who had a repentive heart. His faith and dependance on God was remarkable. He had longed for the presence of God to come to be among his people. And on the day the Ark of the Covenant was presented in Jerusalem, David threw off his royal robe, now covered by only an ephod (basically underwear) and led the celebration by exuberant dance of worship before the Lord. Although his wife Michal saw it as totally undignified and embarrassing, David’s actions once again demonstrated humility and showed that his devotion to God superseded his kingly status and the opinions of others.

Truly, the key to Gods heart is humility. Davids was humble no matter what his situation in life. He gave God the glory for the good, he confessed and repented for the bad. He chose not to exalt himself, but God did it for him.

James 4:6 says, “God resists the proud, but gives grace to the humble.”

Another great example is found in the book of Exodus, where it tells us about the Israelites who spent 40 years wandering in the desert, when all along God had promised to give them a promised land where they would have lives of abundance and freedom from their former torment of slavery. But only if they put their trust in Him. Sadly, it took them forty years…they went around and around the mountain in a journey from Egypt to their Promised Land. A direct, straight-line route would have been about 150 miles (about an 11-day journey), but the journey took them 40…FORTY years. Why? It was a direct result of their lack of faith. It was their constant grumbling and complaining.

Friends, there can’t be a better example of the consequences of what grumbling and complaining can do? Can we really expect God to still hear us and bless us when we grumble and complain? No, He will have no part in it. If you are a mom or dad, you know what I’m talking about. Would you lavish your child with gifts if they were constantly grumbling and complaining? Of course not!

How about the story of Job (see the book of Job). This story is used and illustrated very frequently, even in non-Christian circles where it is used primarily by agnostics who question why one would serve a god who punishes his people. That sad falsehood aside, we know that Job was an upright and blameless man who feared God. He was also a very prosperous man who had a large family and many workers.

Contrary to the agnostic’s belief, the story of Job shows that God saw and was well aware that Job was a humble servant of the Lord. It also tells us that God did not punish or was the direct cause of Job’s pain and suffering. Satan on the other hand was the power behind all the torment. God had only allowed satan to torment Job to prove a point to him and to the rest of the world, that Job’s faith and loyalty to God was not based upon his receiving blessings in life.

Job was put to the test and was afflicted with terrible pain and suffering, to the point at which even his own wife told him to curse God and die. He had three friends who came to comfort him, only to end up wrongly accusing him of sin. Then all in the course of a single day, Job lost all his livestock, servants, and all ten children. And still, he refused to curse God.

Because Job maintained his faith and trust in God throughout his suffering He was visited by God, his friends were rebuked, and God restored Job, giving him double his previous wealth and a new family. Job lived to see his grandchildren into the fourth generation.

Even some Christians have thought of Job’s troubles by saying, God may not have caused all of Job’s suffering, but He still allowed it…so what’s the difference? There is a big difference. We must remember that we all have an enemy who is very real and working on the earth today. Remember, he was cast down and out of his place of leadership in heaven—all due to his self-pride. In this story of Job, God used this real-life situation put satan in his place. Prideful satan had the audacity to think that the only reason Job was serving God was merely because Job was blessed.

To summarize, here are some important take-aways from this important story of Job:

1. God knew Job’s heart prior to satan’s attacks upon Jobs life. And therefore, God did allow it, but primarily for two reasons: 1) To prove to satan that Job and potentially other people do not love and trust God simply because they are blessed, but because they truly love and trust God.
2. God always knows and sees the big picture. We only see a snapshot in present time. This is why we need to truly trust Him. Whether He allowed it should not be the big question. He for sure is aware of it, so the more important response is “God I am trusting you to work this out for your good, show me how I can partner with you in doing that.”
3. Our words have power. The Hebrew word for “curse” is barak, which means that when Job’s wife was telling him to end the pain and suffering it would admit that God brought the suffering, and it would be better to die. When we are going through tough times, are we speaking faith and truly trusting God, or are we speaking out complaints and making comparisons? Would God be as confident in us as he was with Job?
4. God ultimately wants to bless us. Don’t let the story of Job tell you otherwise. What God is looking for is our unwavering trust in Him. Let’s be thankful, stay grateful, and trust him.

Here are a few more encouraging verses:

“And God is able to bless you abundantly, so that in all things at all times, having all that you need, you will abound in every good work”. 2 Cor 9:8

“And my God will meet all your needs according to the riches of his glory in Christ Jesus”. Phil 4:19

“I am the Lord who practices steadfast love, justice, and righteousness in the earth. For in these things I delight, declares the Lord.” Jeremiah 9:24

“The LORD bless you and keep you; the LORD make his face shine upon you and be gracious to you; the LORD lift up his countenance upon you and give you peace”. Numbers 6: 24-26

Friends, if you are currently going through a tough and trying season in life, I am truly sorry for what you are going through, and I certainly don’t want to make light of the difficulty and pain of anyone’s situation. But I do know this—God sees you, and God also sees the bigger picture. As well, I know that God is ALWAYS worthy of our praise and gratitude. Speak it to Him, speak it over your situation, and don’t let the enemy put a muzzle over your praises. Don’t think or speak the enemies’ deceptive ways. Give glory to God in EVERY situation and watch Him turn your situation around. Stay strong, battle through your situation by putting on the full armor of God (see Eph 6) and don’t let down your shield of faith 😊 God is for you, not against you.    

Many times, in my own life, when I am praying over a difficult situation, I have followed the example of King David and danced. Honestly, I get alone with God, sometimes with worship music—sometimes not, and I do a victory dance. I have found this act of worship to be a game changer…and believe me, it’s not because of my great dance moves lol… 1) It shapes my attitude. And 2) God sees me and he loves it when I trust Him with a heart of gratitude.  God sees you too—

From the words of King David: “He will turn your mourning into dancing” Psalm 30:11

Happy Thanksgiving to you all.

Blessed by the Best,

Mark